Hello gingers! I'm really sorry lately has been all mushy-gushy but I need to get this across to my audience. It's important for me to clear out my thoughts on here.
I know this isn't necessarily your favorite thing in the world but we gotta talk about it!
We are so close to 500 hits! That's going to be a pretty gushy blog as well.
As my friend Arianna was saying on her blog, it's SO much easier to be hateful and mean to be nice. I learned that these past couple of weeks and it just feels so good to recognize that and fix the problem for myself. My personal respect, knowledge, and self-worth is very important to me. Just learning everything I can.
It is really easy to be mean. I was mean. It was awful and I hated it. But when you just think about your actions, and what you have done to the other person, the answer is right there. When you just talk gently, and considering the respect that normal people need, you will find that closure and relationships are so much easier to handle.
Closure day. I'm almost done with the entire situation. You just need to get up the courage and do it. Close it up. Close threads. Close connections.
I gave back something that meant a lot to me that this person had given to me. It didn't mean anything to me anymore, but when I gave it back the whole thing finally felt final. There was no going back from it. I was done with it.
This person is still treating me badly though. She is still spreading secrets about me. But now that I know I'm the better person and I always will be, it doesn't even matter anymore. I have true, real friends now that I won't lose. I'm finally figuring out who my real friends are. It's really what I've been striving for in 8th grade. Year of champions.
I'm stronger. I'm better. She's worse. She's weaker.
But I will not treat her differently because of it. I will treat her with respect. Like all people should.
Closure. It's coming completely and with full effect soon.
Stay Strong,
Rachael The Ginger
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